I probably have no reason to feel this way, seeing as how I am very in love with my fiance but, I hate when people are lovey dovey & mushy. I honestly can't fucking stand it in the least bit. I hate when people get hype over their one month anniversary and then celebrate every month - if isn't a YEAR, it doesn't count, you plum. Or do this shit - 'so in love, 010309' - it's been days ! Or the girls that fall apart as soon as their man leaves, like actually crying or being depressed. codependency is disgusting & isn't true love if you ask me. I hate chicks that introduce themselves as 'so & so's girlfriend/wife'. That's not your name asshole, you were a whole person before you got a man, try to remember that. OR the ones that cut people off & lose themselves just because they are in a relationship (finally!!). I think a good mate encourages you to be yourself & grow... not mold you into what they want you to be. And they certainly don't alienate you from your friends/family. But maybe I'm nuts. dunno. I'm old fashion in some ways, for example, I think the MAN should bring up marriage, not the woman nagging him into buying a ring. I also disagree with approaching dudes but that's a-whole-nother subject all together.

I think if you can't stand to be alone you have no business being in a relationship. I also don't believe that 'love' is a crippling emotion. I think it's suppose to empower you, not tie you down & make you feel helpless. '<I>I can't help it, I love him/her/them</i>'.. no you're just choosing to be weak as shit. Everything you do is your choice, with in your control & really is your right. Not only is being helpless (in some cases, not all) a choice to be weak, it's also the act of deciding that someone else comes before you... I think the only people who should come before you or those who put you before themselves. & that not every boyfriend/lover deserves that treatment. I've noticed that my girlfriends that constantly give their all are the main ones getting fucked over... I sense a pattern here - don't you? people(some girls) seem to think the more you give the more you'll get, hopefully, as a award for hard work? i don't know. but I know I don't want people to like me for the same reasons they would like a pet. I want them to like me for the things that make me, me. that includes flaws. this is becoming a rant but it was on my mind & so it's here.