things I've 'found out' during my life. I'm real into list lately:

• when a female's lips (face) are burned, cut or harmed in other ways leaving them beyond repair, doctor's can use skin from their vagina's to fix them/it. The skin on our boxes & lips are the same skin. 
• if you've fallen in love or are in love & are between the ages of 12-19 you are psychologically viewed to be immature & lacking a sense of self. (I'll explain if needed)
• cats are trainable - just like dogs. 
• you can get a cow to go upstairs but not back down (got this one from a comedy show) 
• sexual chemistry is the easiest part of a relationship. either it's there or it isn't. people waste a lot of time & energy trying to force what just isn't there when they should just move on.
• at the end of adolescence, a child should be emotionally independent (think for himself) from his parents & becoming his own person.. a lot of parents are offended by this but really it's got nothing to do with love.
• there's no such thing as 'love at first sight' only 'lust at first sight'.
• people shouldn't fall in love, rather stand in love because to fall is to be helpless & passive but standing implies that a person is stable enough that they not only know themselves & valve but love themselves enough to know what they want in another person & therefore are actually able to be in love without losing themselves.

• people who 'look the other way' in their relationships often think they are being mature or saving their relationship but not making a big deal over disrespectful situations but in reality they are ruining their chances of having a successful relationship with this person. co-dependent people will put up with any & everything & normally end up with nothing. 

I got a few from my psych book. I really love that class and when I can I plan on taking more psychology courses. MAYBE abnormal psych in the fall, then I'll know what the fuck is wrong with you !

I dunno, I've been thinking about this level of tolerance we're all expected to have with other people's nonsense.. I really don't see why we should. I've decided to make a little list of things I don't agree with OR respect. Just for your personal knowledge of course. 

• Children out of wedlock - I'm not religious, I just feel kids deserve: TWO active parents, to have siblings who all have the same parents, to have an example of what a positive, healthy relationships look like & of course, the financial security of two educated people's income. 
• Women/men who expose their kids to people they are 'dating' - I don't think this is cute one fucking bit. who you date is your business, but not everyone has good intentions & it's just unfair to bring random people around children. It's also unsafe & doesn't promote serious relationships - how will your child know what one's like?
• People (especially women) that are against abortions & would like them to be illegal again - this is just utter bullshit to me. 'why should the child suffer' & such stupidity is said - news flash, only someone BORN can suffer. I think it's worse to have someone and watch them have a horrible miserable life - all because of you. Children aren't suppose to be accidents & mistakes. They shouldn't be the reason you 'get your life together'. They should come after you've already done that. Also, whenever a person is against abortions, they can always be presented with a situation that they believe an abortion should be "allowed". Thank god they are LEGAL right? Asshole. Lets not forget those GROWN WOMEN who died on back alley tables because people wouldn't give them the legal choice.
• Co-dependence - I can not stand when people have to be up under each other all of the time, especially couples. That isn't love - that's unhealthy and most times doesn't last. you can't always be there for someone and they can't always be there for you. AND if you are unable to be by yourself, you must not like yourself & therefore how could you love someone else properly? 
• Looking the other way/tolerance - I don't know how else to word it but if everyone looked the other way - right now any man could just walk into my home and do all types of things to me because of my race, gender, financial status - whatever. There has been a time when the things we now know are right OR wrong weren't viewed as such. There's also things like people having 4 kids before they are 25 - & not being sure of the fathers - that are ignored. You have women raising their kids to be total assholes & no one is suppose to say anything unless they have children or some other rule. this is wrong to me. if there was no verbalization of morals or opinions how would we function? Net mothers tell me all the time 'you can't say this or that because you don't have a child'.. I guess having a child is a crutch for behaving carelessly & stupidly. It's pretty funny because the GOOD mothers realize that I have a love for the well-being of children & they aren't offended. Shitty mothers go 'girl you don't have kids you can't say anything!'. Womp!
• Sexist ideals - this whole idea that women are suppose to be seen not heard, that we don't have healthy sex drives - 'men will be men' when they cheat but a female is a whore if she's "overly sexually active". WOMP. women are actually the more sexual gender, but we're suppose to hide that. It's sad that now it's so embedded in society - that it's actually women who are the quickest to label other females with these male made controlling standards of nonsense. Every woman decides for herself what is proper and improper sexual behavior - JUST like men.